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Issue 20.4 : Featured Article
Your Husband Is My Bitch:<br>The Strange World of Gay Cuckolding

Your Husband Is My Bitch:
The Strange World of Gay Cuckolding


Wolf Mendelsohn explores the strange world of gay cuckolding fantasies.



Back in 2016, there were a number of articles published about rising gay interest in cuckolding fantasies, a type of roleplay that originated with straight couples but eventually began to stir up some interest in the gay community after gay marriage was legalized. You can read articles about gay cuckolding at Queerty and Huffington Post.

A cuckold, if you don't already know, is a term for the disgraced husband of an adulteress. When you use the word as a verb (to cuckold another man) it means that you make a cuckold of him by having sex with his wife. In the context of a modern sexual fetish, this typically involves doing it right in front of him (or at least where he can hear you.) In contrast, the more traditional concept of a cuckold usually involves the husband being the last to know about what his wife is doing behind his back.



Some Straight Porn Cuckolding Tropes:

1. A masochistic husband with an average-sized dick and an inferiority complex asks bigger-dicked men to come fuck his wife the way she deserves. Perhaps he has some repressed homosexual desires, in which case choosing the guys and seeing them fuck his wife will provide an extra vicarious thrill.

2. A married couple has a great sex life, but the wife is a histrionic slut who compulsively fucks her husband's friends and colleagues, her ex's, the UPS man, the neighbor boy, the grocery bagger, etc. Luckily this turns her husband on, so she sends him live camera phone images as other guys are fucking her like a cheap whore in random locations.

3. A naive but horny young married couple goes to a swinger club for the first time and they're quickly  seduced by an attractive guy who knows exactly what to say to allay their first-timer fears. He seems like the ideal guy for a first threeway. But once they get him home he turns into the Dom from hell, ties up and gags the husband, and then forces him to watch (or to listen helplessly from another room) as he fucks the guy's wife, causing her to make squeals of pleasure that the husband has never heard before, all the while putting the husband down.



Gay cuckolding fantasies are a lot like their straight counterparts, but driven by slightly different characterizations and situations. As with the straight fantasies, the cuckolds themselves often seem to be the ones who are pulling the strings and driving the narratives. In a lot of amateur gay cuckolding videos, it's the cuckolds who are posting the videos or photos and bragging about the exploits of their brazen partners. In one oddly poignant comment, a cuckold stated that the more slutty his partner revealed himself to be, the more he loved him. So maybe for some people it's about self-revelation as a means of achieving increased intimacy.

Historically, gay men tended to be pretty liberated sexually. Perhaps that's why cuckolding never really caught on as a fantasy until recently. Now that we have marriage equality, the adoption of a more heteronormative lifestyle is becoming more common. Maybe gay cuckolding fantasies are a way of pushing back against this.

At it's core, cuckolding falls within the realm of S&M. The cuckold derives a masochistic pleasure from being humiliated by his wife and dominated by another man. At the same time, he is released from his unconscious stress and his fear of not being able to adequately satisfy his wife. To deal with his insecurity and his fear of inadequacy, he faces the fear by giving up, admitting he’s not good enough, and then sub-contracting his husbandly duties to a third party. For the adulterer and the interloper, the act can involve a bit of sadism, exhibitionism, and the thrill of transgression. The whole concept feels a bit fucked up and dysfunctional, but a lot of people are into it – so who am I to judge? To date, gay adult studios haven't really seized on gay cuckolding as a new genre, which might be because threeways, fourways, and more-ways involving couples have pretty much become standard fare in gay porn.

Men.com
 has filmed quite a few threeway scenes that involve gay couples and an interloper, but they don't necessarily call it cuckolding. You'll find scenes like this at many other studios as well, but you may need to do a keyword search for “threeway” since that’s typically how such scenes are  keyword-tagged.

You can browse a limited selection of gay and bisexual cuckolding scenes at VOD sites like AEBN, NakedSword, and Gay Hot Movies.

If you're looking for 100% gay, amateur cuckolding, you'll find it on Twitter, amateur video sharing sites, and Tumblr. Below are some example links to get you started.



TWITTER:
Gay Cuckold
3 Is the Way

TUMBLR:
John Dad 13
True Questions
Gay Cuckold Spain

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