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Issue 20.4 : Featured Article
Who’s the Boss:<br>Gay Bondage & Discipline

Who’s the Boss:
Gay Bondage & Discipline


Benji Lovari looks at some of the most popular gay adult sites featuring bondage and discipline.



Sex and power are inextricably linked, and every sexual encounter involves negotiation, roleplaying, and trust. People often cycle through different roles during a single encounter as each partner playfully takes turns dominating and submitting, punctuated by moments of deep trust and connectedness in which roles and boundaries become blurred. BDSM actually involves the same types of power dynamics, except that the roles are much more defined and exaggerated. BDSM is often more ritualized and theatrical, too. There is specialized attire and décor, use of props and devices, and lots of specialized tools. In addition, there's often a strong undercurrent of psychodrama.

We all exhibit traits of both sadism and masochism in our day to day lives, even if we don't recognize those traits as such. BDSM provides a safe, negotiated space wherein you can explore those tendencies. BDSM is definitely not for everyone, but if you're curious then check out the list below. It includes many of the most popular gay adult sites that specialize in bondage and discipline.

The Hard Order

The Hard Order features expert masters who specialize in domination. Are you drawn to men with antisocial tendencies? Is Patrick Bateman from American Psycho your OTP? If so, you're in the right place. The masters at The Hard Order are attractive and charismatic manipulators who get bored easily, and the one thing that excites them is wielding power over others. The first-class trauma bonding action at The Hard Order includes ass worship, mind games, taboo roleplay, obscenity, jerk off instruction, forced foot worship, financial domination, cock control, demeaning insults, slave training, humiliation, blackmail, home wrecking, hand jobs, elitist arrogance, and callous sexual punishment. Good lord... That sounds like a laundry list of my last three failed relationships. And they expect me to pay for that kind of abuse?! Frankly, I find this site sick and offensive – and it kind of turns me on.

Spank This!

The web's most popular gay spanking site is produced by Helix studios and features many of Helix's hottest young models in well acted scenes that involve erotic and intense spanking discipline.

Previtus Media
Previtus Media specializes in fantasy scenarios involving drug use (party sex) and gay hate crimes (domination, abuse, and forced sex by authority figures.) The studio's videos are available on the site and they feature great production quality, hot models, and believable performances.

If you or a loved one has ever been the victim of drug addiction or a hate crime, the videos by Previtus Media might be triggering for you. If the idea of sexualizing abuse offends you, you should avoid the site. But if you're turned on by edgy, taboo-breaking fantasies that flirt with the dark side, Previtus has those. Facing and/or sexualizing your fears in a fantasy context can actually serve as a coping mechanism for some people. And believe it or not, victims of childhood abuse sometimes grow up to fetishize sex that mirrors their abuse experience in some way. It's neither good nor bad. It's simply one possible side effect of abuse – so you should always think twice before kink-shaming anyone.

Gangster Fuck
We just discovered this hardcore bondage and discipline site, and we think you'll like it. The site's videos star a mix of handsome young jocks and twinks who engage in domination and roleplay scenarios that would make the Marquis de Sade proud. The photos and screen caps are great and the quality of the videos is very good as well. Many of the scenes are quite dramatic and disturbingly realistic. In others, you can tell that the guys are hamming it up a bit (which doesn't make the scenes any less hot.) It's actually kind of nice to have an occasional reminder that it's just consensual make-believe. So be sure to check it out!

Kink Men
Kink has really raised the bar for the gay fetish genre. Their BDSM content features the industry's biggest stars and covers a broad range of BDSM-related themes. Known for amazing sets, locations, direction, and production values, Kink's sites always take things one step further than you expect them to. Kink's six gay sites have all been consolidated into one mega site, and you get access to all of them for one low price. It's a great deal that gives you unlimited access to more than 10,000 HD scenes of hardcore BDSM from Bound Gods, Men on Edge, Naked Kombat, Bound in Public, 30 Minutes of Torment, and Butt Machine Boys.

Bound Jocks
This site specializes in muscular jocks, sports gear, and hardcore bondage.

Boynapped
Boynapped features BDSM scenes with cute young twinks serving as both Doms and subs. In other scenes, twinks are dominated by an older Dom.

Extreme Boyz
Extreme Boyz specializes in hardcore bondage and discipline, with twinks dominated by older daddies.

FraternityX
Fraternity X is a faux-reality site showcasing the sexual shenanigans at a gay fraternity house. The scenes often feature abusive initiation rituals, sexual exploitation of gay students who are thirsty for cock, and ritualistic punishments for frat infractions that often include bondage, humiliation, domination, and gang bangs.

Haze Him
Haze Him features authentic hazing videos starring cute young pledges who are coerced into having gay sex.

Iron Lockup
Iron Lockup operates a real, high-tech dungeon with extreme security measures and cameras mounted throughout the facility to capture the BDSM adventures of the facilities temporary detainees.

Jason Strong Tickling
Jason Strong Tickling offers a large collection of amateur male tickling and tickle torture videos that offer good production quality and attractive models.

Man Up Films
Fetish star Lance Hart helms this eclectic collection of original scenes featuring ball busting, foot play, bondage, domination, superheroes, feminization, and other forms of kinky sex.

Parole Him
Parole Him presents simulated surveillance cam footage purporting to document gay sexual abuse at a Northern California parole office.

Raw and Rough
Raw and Rough specializes in bareback pig sex and masculine men. The site’s videos include activities such as fisting, water sports, and BDSM.

Spanking Central
This popular spanking site has been creating content for over 13 years and has over 2,000 amateur, male-on-male spanking videos.

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