By Dr. Arty Ruffello
Words are powerful, so it should come as no surprise that dirty talking is a big turn-on for many people. Much of sex happens in our heads and words tap straight into our imaginations. In the same way that visualization can lead to action, words can elicit desire and create hotter sex.
If you’re contemplating dirty talk in the bedroom, know that it can easily backfire. If you talk dirty, always say it like you mean it – and say things that turn YOU on rather than repeating bad porno lines. In short, own it – and make sure it’s a turn-on for your partner beforehand. College Hooker Boy offers good insights in The Ups and Down of Dirty Talk. For more advice, read UK Blackout’s How To Talk Dirty. Although it might sound silly, practicing alone first can help. Approach it like an acting gig. To be convincing, you need to feel comfortable and uninhibited – and repetition can be an excellent way to ease into a new persona.
Nasty and degrading talk has long been a staple in straight porn. No one bats an eyelash when a straight porn actor tells a buxom bitch to suck his fuckin’ cock – or asks if she needs daddy to rape her little schoolgirl pussy. But gay men often snicker to hear similar things in gay porn. It’s hard to blame them, since the delivery of gay porn dialog is often less than stellar. As a result, dirty talk remains one of the last unexplored frontiers in gay porn. It does show up occasionally in porn films – and stars like Jeff Stryker are known for being bossy – but dirty talk hasn’t yet been exhaustively indexed or strip-mined like other gay fetish genres. As a result, the best way to find good dirty talk scenes is by word of mouth – so read on for our recommendations.
Dirty talk is fairly common in leather-themed porn and kinky fetish films. Knightbreeders is one of the most explicit and uncompromisingly nasty studios we’ve encountered and they’ve got foul-mouthed hotties galore. This young company is growing by leaps and bounds and Knight Breeder’s Bion Kirk said, “We’ve received a lot of feedback and one of the things fans ask for is more guys who are very verbal. Damian Silver is one of our main actors and he’s got the filthiest mouth in porn.” Like all the best verbal tops, Damian has a talent for intuiting the secret, shameful desires of his partners and then speaking them out loud in a way that steers the action. Check him out on the site in Sperm For Lube 2.
I used to think Pier Pasolini’s Saló was the most obscene film I’d seen – until I discovered Treasure Island Media. This gay fetish giant is another treasure trove for fans of dirty talk. In the first scene of Meat Packing, popular verbal top Brad MacGuire and his costar Dawson are naked in an outdoor stairwell. Brad says things like, “Lick those balls. I got a big fuckin’ load... A few days worth, man. Yeah… I’ll cum right in your fuckin’ hole. That’s what you want, huh?” As the action heats up, bottom boy Dawson gets more brazen with comments like, “Come on – put that big fuckin’ load up my ass, man…” In response, Brad takes back control by upping the ante with, “Come on – work it! Fuck me with that ass, you hungry pig. You’re gonna have to work for this load…” It’s an expert dance of tension and resolution right up until the very end. Brad is also great in Scene 8 of Fearless – and check out loud bottom Mason Garrett in Scene 3 of Bone Deep.
Other hardcore studios offering dirty talk and verbal sex include Dark Alley and Hot Desert Knights. And although it’s tough to find, director Todd Verow’s film XX from Wurstfilm is definitely worth seeking out as well.
If you prefer less kink, start with all the clips featuring Thomas at Active Duty. With his stunning body, big dick, and foul mouth, Thomas has earned a cult following. For a free peek, check out Banana Blog.
In the Hot House Backroom, watch the hot clips of very verbal Nash Lawler. If you’re a fan of Jet Set Men, check out Berke Banks in CarJackers. At Lucas Entertainment, we recommend Inside Israel. We love it when the Israeli guys talk dirty in Hebrew! In addition, Michael Lucas and Rafael Alencar are both known for being verbal. Israel Auditions highlights Michael. Paris Playboys and Rafael In Paris both showcase Rafael.
At Raging Stallion Studios, check out scenes from Grunts that feature Ricky Sinz. Antonio Biaggi sometimes talks in crude Spanish when he gets turned on, too. At Titan Media, you’ll want to watch Cole Tucker’s performance in Fallen Angel 3, Tony Buff in Triage, Christopher Saint in Scene 1 of Search and Rescue, Toy Buff and Will Parker’s scene in Folsom Flesh, and the scene with David Anthony and David Dakota in Eye Contact.
Last but not least, at With Marcello star Marcello often talks dirty to the camera – earning him our most esteemed honorary title: HRH Lord Foul-Mouth.
